II श्रीराम जय राम जय जय राम II

जग में बैरी कोय नही, जो मन शीतल होय I
या आपा को डारि दे, दया करे सब कोय II

"Kabir says, the ego's choices end up becoming the very obstacles to love and our relationships turn into ego battleships, for ego fears its undoing in love. Ego and love cannot exist together. Ego is like darkness. It is the absence of love. With love absent within us the voice of "I" goes on resounding. And with this voice of "I" we say that 
"I" want to love
 "I" want to give love
 "I" want to receive love. 
But it is so contradictory, for there has never been any relation between "I" and "love". And this "I"goes on speaking for "love".
This is the same thing as darkness saying,
"I" want to hug the sun
"I" want to love the sun
It is inconceivable.
"I" is the lack of love, and the more we go on strengthening this voice of ’I’, the less possibility there will be of love within us. The more the ego is there, the more love will be absent. And therefore he says,  shedding the ego is to allow love to flow."

II श्रीराम जय राम जय जय राम II

II श्रीसद्गुरूचरणार्पणमस्तु II