II श्रीराम जय राम जय जय राम II

क्षमा बडे न को उचित है, छोटे को उत्पात I
कहा विष्णू का घटि गया, जो भृगु मारी लात II

For many of us, "Forgiveness" is a big scary word. Whether we’re seeking it or giving it, it can be a hard thing to come by. It is a decision to let go of bitterness and resentment towards another person or situation, for when you change the direction of your focus, the direction of your life changes too.
Holding on to anger or grudges will not bring justice to the other person nor will it hold them accountable for their wrong doing. The grief and pain only affects you. Holding on does not give you power – it leaves you powerless.
It’s important to forgive others, not because they deserve your forgiveness, but because you deserve peace. You deserve to feel renewed and healed; and you will. Forgiveness isn’t about changing the past, it’s about changing the future. 

"Kabir says, the illustrious Sage Bhrigu tested the tolerance of the Supreme Lord Vishnu by purposely kicking His chest. When Bhrigu arrived at Lord Vishnu’s abode, Lord Vishnu was fast asleep. The Sage tried to awaken Him up, but Lord was in deep sleep. Bhrigu kicked Lord Vishnu extremely hard right on his chest so as to try and trigger His temper too. Lord Vishnu woke up and immediately touched Bhrigu’s feet enquiring if the Sage had hurt his feet while kicking him. The Sage realized that Lord Vishnu’s humility definitely merited him as the greatest, the Supreme. No wonder it is said, to err is human, to forgive is divine."

II श्रीराम जय राम जय जय राम II

II श्रीसद्गुरूचरणार्पणमस्तु II